Happiness! Happiness! Happiness! it is just a phrase which has become a cliche.
Many of us make use of the word happy/happiness in different occasions and there is almost nobody who can say he/she does not know the meaning of happiness nor understand what happiness is.
There are different forms of happiness,we have the temporal and the real happiness.
The temporal happiness last for just a while maybe happiness over an event, an incident etc.But when we talk of real happiness we talk of a happiness that last longer than event.
One can never be completely happy without any sadness but when you have real happiness,then no matter the condition you will always find comfort,there are always things that give you joy no matter the situation.
NOW TO GAIN REAL HAPPINESS
1.The first step into real happiness is family.I came to understand in life that family is the greatest happiness one can ever get in this life.without family one finds it hard to be happy.
N:B:Family is not necessarily who gave birth to you..,family is simply who you love and who loves you...
2.choice is very important in being happy.By that i mean that you choose whether to be happy or not,no one can ever make you unhappy except yourself.if you choose to be happy you will find out that you will stay happy,that is when things that make you sad come by you will convince your heart to smile and laugh.
3.Finally GOAL,to achieve anything in life you need to have a goal.This also applies to happiness.
I once watched a movie titled a pursuit for happiness,in this movie although his wife left him he still had a family in his son,he made a choice to get happiness and be happy but he barely achieved this.Here is where the item GOAL comes in.In that movie his goal was to get a work and live a nice life with his son,he pursued it and he achieved it.
Now looking at his story making a choice to be happy was difficult for him,he couldn't keep-up his problems where too much that he barely had time to think of convincing his heart to be happy,there was so much sadness in his life...BUT in all this he still had two important concepts, which were FAMILY and GOAL.That,s why he finally found happiness.
So in being happy always use those three concept but if the second one is hard to keep-up then make sure you keep up with the first and the third one.
FINALLY MY ADVICE TO YOU IS IF YOU ARE HAPPY NOW TRY YOUR BEST TO STAY HAPPY BEING HAPPY IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS.
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