BEING INDEPENDENT

Independence simply means being free.That is you are not relying on anyone or anything,you are just self reliant and can survive on your own.
Being independent is not an easy thing even when you make up your mind.
Now you grew up depending on your parents for almost everything.Any side money you make through other means you normally spend it freely without thought,when you are in need of something you just go back to your parents.But it comes to a time when doing that becomes difficult not because they wont give you but because you now feel uncomfortable asking them about it and you don't want to give an explanation in order to get it.So you now decide to find a way to survive on your own,without having to fall back to your parents.
                       THIS IS THE POINT WHERE YOU TALK ABOUT BEING INDEPENDENT
       
           Truthfully this is very difficult.
  At first it will seem easy especially when you think of it.Infact when you start doing it,it will seem easy sweet and great.until it gets to a point where you are broke both financially and other wise,you start thinking about going to your parents again but pride wont let you,before you know you start borrowing(this means you are no longer independent).But at this point you know that you are now understanding life and how life works.
          When ever you reach this point,your journey of independence have started.
One point I want to make clear is that no one can ever really be independent,everybody at some point borrow ,even so called independent countries borrow.So being independent is just a concept and not an ideal fact.
        So when we talk of being independent we should just assume that we are semi-independent,that is you  can do things on your own(hustle,make decisions,and survive)without inviting others to help you nor asking for someones permission,you just do it even if it is borrowing.

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