.
reasonable
goal when
you first
approach girls
at a party. Do
not expect
them to fall in
love with you
at first sight,
or the first
time you
speak.
Establish a
realistic goal
in your mind
of having a
comfortable
conversation
with them.
2.
Be polite. Do
not barge into
a
conversation.
See if you can
catch their
attention as
you walk by.
If you notice
them looking
at you, just
say hello and
see how the
girls respond.
If they
respond back,
ask an ice
breaking
question like
"Are you
having a good
time?" From
there, if they
answer, you
can start a
casual
conversation.
3. Look for
your
opportunity
to introduce
yourself, if
step two does
not present
itself as an
opportunity
or it does not
work. If you
see the girls
talking to
someone else
that you
know, try
walking over
and either
introducing
yourself or
hope that
your friend
will introduce
you. 4. Avoid
trying to
do a
conversation
by talking
about
yourself.
Talking all
about
yourself can
give the girls
the
impression
that you are
egotistical
and self
absorbed.
Instead,listen
to what they
say and ask
questions or
discuss the
items that
they are
discussing.
Showing
interest in
the
information
the girls
reveal will
indicate to
them that you
are
interested in
getting to
know
something
about them.
5. Find out
about their
hobbies. This
can be useful
information if
you decide
that you want
to eventually
go further
than just
being friends,
and might be
interested in
asking one of
them out on a
date.The
more you
know about
the girls and
the more
comfortable
they are
talking with
you, the more
likely you are
to have a
successful
conversation
at the party.
6.Pay
attention to
non verbal
clues. If the
girls start to
act bored, or
like they have
somewhere to
go, do not try
to make the
conversation
last longer
than they
seem
interested.
Remember,
this is the
first time you
are talking to
them, and
don't expect
to become
best friends
instantly.
Ending a
conversation
with that
little bit of
the unknown
left about
you, might
make you
more
interesting to
them in
regards to
conversations
later or even
possibly a
date down
the road. Tips
& Warnings
When at a
party, if you
can socialize
as a group
with the girls
that you are
interested in
talking with,
this can help
everyone feel
more
comfortable.
It will help
them let their
guard down
and not feel
like they are
being hit on,
even if in the
end that is
your
intention in
the back of
your mind. Do
not stalk the
girls at the
party. If the
conversation
ends and they
walk away, do
not keep
coming up to
them all night
trying to
start a new
conversation.
Saying hello
again is fine,
to see how
they react,
but don't
force yourself
on them.
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